Kate
McCann has told MPs of the fight she and husband Gerry faced to get
emotional support following the disappearance of their daughter,
Madeleine.
She
travelled to Westminster yesterday to give evidence to an inquiry
looking at the help given to families whose children are missing.
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Kate
McCann, centre, with with Nicki Durban (right) mother of
missing Luke Durbin and Sarah Godwin (left) mother of
missing Quentin Godwin |
Calling
for the Government to improve support, Kate, of Rothley, said: "As a
parent of a missing child or adult, you need to know that everything
that can reasonably be done is being done.
"We've
had to really fight to get the help from those who can make the most
difference ? the police and the authorities."
The
inquiry was welcomed by Leicestershire police, who said six men, two
women, six girls and three boys from the county are currently logged as
missing on their system.
The
figures do not include Madeleine, who disappeared from her family's
holiday flat in the Algarve in May, 2007, or Braunstone Frith man Derek
Cross, who went missing in November, 1996 while on holiday in Benidorm,
because they went missing abroad.
Yesterday's inquiry was held by the All Party Parliamentary Group on
Runaway and Missing Children and Adults.
Speaking
to the group of MPs, Kate said: "To be left in the dark when your child
is missing and at risk is unbearable and bordering on the inhumane.
Professional psychological help and support is essential. As human
beings we are not equipped to deal with such devastating emotions.
"If we
can improve the help and support given to other families who find
themselves thrown into this awful nightmare it will be worth every
minute."
Kate was
joined by two other mothers ? Sarah Godwin, whose son, Quentin, was 18
when he went missing in New Zealand in 1992, and Nicki Durbin, whose
19-year-old son Luke disappeared four years ago.
They
spoke about the amount of emotional support currently available to
families.
Addressing crowds outside the Commons, while clutching a picture of
Madeleine, Kate said: "If your house is burgled, you are automatically
offered victim support with emotional, practical and legal assistance.
If your child goes missing, you may get nothing.
"This
parliamentary inquiry has the potential to change that.
"When
someone you love goes missing, you are left with unimaginable, unending
heartbreak, confusion, guilt and worry. In addition to the reassurance
that everything possible is being done to find their missing loved one,
families need support."
The
inquiry continues on Thursday, when Rachel Elias, sister of missing
Manic Street Preachers guitarist Richey Edwards, will talk about current
guidelines on when to presume a missing person is dead.
Peter
Lawrence, father of missing York chef Claudia Lawrence, will also talk
about the difficulties of managing a missing person's practical affairs
such as finances.
The
final session, on June 23, will look at missing person reports and how
bodies are identified.
MP Ann
Coffey, chair of the inquiry, said: "This inquiry will examine what
emotional, practical and legal support those families need to help them
cope at such a traumatic time.
"When a
child or vulnerable adult goes missing the families left behind are
absolutely devastated. Often the families feel isolated and alone."
The
Missing People charity said about 200,000 people nationally go missing
every year. Two-thirds are children. |