by volunteer contributor Anynomous (*)

When disaster knocks on a P/N’s door, first and foremost, whatever happened was NOT his fault.

Therefore, he shares no blame.

If the blame lies solely at his feet, then expect to be kicked and kicked hard.

And if it’s in your direction that he kicked the blame towards, to the outside world the P/N will be your savior, protecting you at all costs, but behind closed doors he will be trying to drive you to an ultimate sacrifice, a “social suicide”. His reasoning is that he knows you are trapped in a situation of your own making. Or that he’s manipulated into thinking that it’s of your own making.

But this driving is not for self-protection, but self-glorification. You, apparently are unable to avoid going down a spiral of self-destruction, although all his “efforts” to help you, but unable to as the external threat is too great. It’s either your blame or the blame of others. He’s just a humble hero.

A P/Ns react backwards to everything you or I would do, they are like a mirror image.

Do not be surprised or shocked when the P/N exploits catastrophe in his life; and what he believes he can get away with.

To him you are not a person but an object and mean nothing to him, your mere existence is to be exploited. Human feelings do not exist in his Universe.

Any disaster that enters a P/Ns life illness, bankruptcy, even the death of a child means nothing; it is only something to be used for his or her aggrandizement.....

Understand this and you may understand the night May 3rd 2007.

(*) Intentionally misspelled. This contribution came in unidentified, so we decided to call him/her by a misspelling of the “anonymous”, so that you have an entity to which you can refer to, if you wish to do so, when referring to this post